Who Am I to Judge?

You may think you can condemn such people, but you are just as bad, and you
have no excuse! When you say they are wicked and should be punished, you
are condemning yourself, for you who judge other do these very same
things. And we know that God, in his justice, will punish anyone who does
such things. Don't you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God
is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? (Romans 2:1-2;4
NLT).

Over dinner this week, our family had a discussion on a sensitive topic that has recently made national headlines. After laying out some of the specifics, I challenged our kids with the words, "so, what do you think?". Instantly, our 12 year old daughter, Shelby, responded with, "I don't see how we can judge them for that. It is not our place to judge." In one respect, her response startled me and in another respect, it encouraged me.

First, I was surprised by the passion in her position. The tone of her voice and her demeanor indicated that she was completely committed to this position. Second, I was encouraged that she had some very specific thoughts to why she held the position that she did. Thank you, Shelby, for your heart and for your thoughts.

As I thought about her response, the realization that God has not delegated to us the power to judge became very apparent. Judging is His job--not ours. After all, doesn't He know so much more about the specifics of a particular situation than we could ever know. Think about it--how many times do we jump to a particular conclusion without knowing all the facts. And with only a portion of the facts, how can we believe we know enough to form an opinion on the matter. Still, I admit, I am prone to form my own judgement without knowing all I need to know.

In the verses above, Paul, the author who penned God's wisdom into the book of the Bible referred to as Romans, reminds us that we are not to judge. He goes on to say that God's patience, tolerance, and kindness towards us should encourage us to treat others in a similar way.

So, when we come across something in our life that raises those judgemental thoughts, what are we to do? I encourage you to trust. Trust Him who knows so much more than you do. Trust Him who is in actually in control. Trust Him who knows that this situation may trip you up. Trusting Him is easier to say than it is to do. Give God a shot. He not only tells us not to judge, but also empowers us to live it out moment by moment in our life if we truly allow Him to live His life through ours.

Can I Do This?

But if the slave plainly says, "I love my master, my wife, and my
children; I will not go out as a free man," then his master shall bring him to God, then he shall bring him to the door or the doorpost. And his master shall pierce his ear with an awl; and he shall serve him permanently. (Exodus 21:5-6).

The slave in this passage, after his ear was pierced, was commonly referred to as a bondservant. The slave's decision to "go under the awl" was a voluntary one and greatly influenced by the type of person the master was. His life proclaimed his passionate love for his master. His life, and now his piercing, left no doubt about his undivided and intense loyalty.

Have you exhibited a similar loyalty to your Master? No, I am not asking have you placed your ear against a doorpost. But, simply this, would people around you, those who you have consistent contact with, be surprised if you outwardly revealed that you are a Chrisitian? They shouldn't be surprised. Hopefully, it is evident in who God is creating you to be.

I encourage you to be bold in your loyalty to your Master. Allow Him to permeate all areas of your life. He desires all of you. You may ask, "[c]an I do this? There are areas of my life that I want to keep to myself." My answer--He knows already who you are and all that there is about you. Why not allow Him to take complete control of all aspects of your life! You follow a loving, compassionate, caring Master who truly has your best interests at heart. Give Him your loyalty.