How are You Doing with Humbleness?

But He gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: "God opposes
the proud, but gives grace to the humble." (James 4:6 NIV).

Your answer to the challenge question in the title may indicate a great deal about your attitude towards humbleness. Throughout Scripture, God continually encourages us to "be humble", and to "have a humble heart". And for those who are not humble, He promises to bring humility into their lives--at times, with some painful reminders. God loves a humble heart. But let's just cut to the chase--you may try to achieve humbleness on your own, but YOU cannot do it.

If you have placed your trust in the saving blood of Christ, you have His indwelling spirit. Jesus Christ lives inside of you. And what does He say of Himself--"I am gentle and humble in heart." So, guess what--you possess those same characteristics. All that Christ is lives inside of you. You and He are one. So, why don't I always allow those characteristics to show in my behavior?

Because they are completely contrary to the way I was before trusting Christ. By my old nature, I wanted things my way; I wanted to show people that I was in control; and I wanted people to pay attention to me. But now, my old nature is gone--it has been crucified. It is no longer I that live, but Christ that lives inside of me. (Galatians 2:20). Those old ways of doing things no longer have control over me. Now, it is Christ's life and all that He is that has taken over.

So, when I exhibit those old habits--it is completely contrary to who (and whose) I now am. When I am proud and self-focused, I am living a lie. When I am focused on drawing attention to myself, I am believing something that is just not true.

God does give His grace to those that are humble. But, His opposition falls in the way of those who lift up themselves. Personally, I prefer His grace. How about you?

How Much is Too Much?

And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. (Romans 8:28 NLT).

Many times, I have heard people say, "God will never give us more that we can handle." This is usually said in an attempt to comfort one who is wading through deep waters. I am sure the comforter's intentions are completely pure. And, at times, these words are comforting. But, I think the words can have an even deeper comfort when we understand God's plan for us-especially when the waves of life come crashing in.

We serve a loving, amazingly awesome God. Not only has he provided a means of spending eternity in His presence, but also, today, offers those who have placed their faith in Him the promise of an abundant life. (John 10:10). This abundant life does not mean a life without challenges. And some of these challenges are extremely painful. I think of the mother and father experiencing the untimely death of young child; or the rejection felt by an unsuspecting spouse dealt by a soon to be ex-husband or wife. My heart absolutely bleeds in these unfortunate times. And, today, it seems they happen all to often.

Sometimes, God does give me more than we can handle in our own strength. His purpose, I believe, is to bring us to end of our self. A place where we no longer rely upon our own means to "get through." In that spot, He takes over. His life, being lived out through ours, means we can do all things--not on our own, but by relying upon Him. It means we have a hope. A hope we so desperately need.

We can place our trust that God is not surprised or caught off guard with what is going on. Please know when you go through tough, tough times you have never ever left His presence. He has not forgotten about you. His plan, though we don't understand it, is designed to draw us closer to Him so we can experience His love in a much deeper way. Please rest in that.

Father, we know full well that we never leave your amazing presence. Though there are times we feel apart from you, please allow us to know that our feelings, at times, deceive us. We know your words says that you will never leave us or forsake us. Allow us to rest in that truth. There will be times in our life when the waves come crashing that are especially painful. In these times, we know that you are working for our good. We trust you. We love you. Thank you for the hope and peace that can only come from you. Amen!

Stay Strong,

Dave

The Little Things Do Matter

With the Lord's authority let me say this: live no longer as the
ungodly do, for they are hopelessly confused. Their closed minds are full of darkness they are far away from the life of God because they have shut their minds and hardened their hearts against Him. They don't care anymore about right and wrong, and they have given themselves over to immoral ways. Their lives are filled with all kinds of impurity and greed.

But that isn't what you were taught when you learned about
Christ. Since you have heard all about Him and have learned the truth that
is in Jesus, throw off you old evil nature and your former way of life, which is
rotten through and through, full of lust and deception. Instead, there
must be a spiritual renewal of your thoughts and attitudes. You must
display a new nature because you are a new person, created in
God's likeness--righteous, holy, and true. (Ephesians 4:17-24)(emphasis
mine).

In this passage, Paul, the writer of Ephesians, lays out the difference between our old self and the new person we are after placing our faith in Christ. By the world's view, this new person is really quite uncommon today. Webster's dictionary defines the word uncommon as unusual; or not ordinarily encountered.

Prior to placing my trust in Christ, if someone were to describe me as uncommon, I would have been a bit offended. I would have thought, I want to be just like every one else--I want to just blend in. After all, I was not that different.

Now, to be called uncommon, is a compliment. As a believer, we are called to be different. After all, we do have the living Christ living inside of us. And because of His presence, we are no longer the same--in fact, God's truth declares that "we are a new creation." (2 Corinthians 5:17). As a new creation, God empowers and strengthens us to live by and in His truth in all of the things we do and say. Living this way is the way God designed us to live. In this, we have His peace and joy. It is all His gift of the abundant life.

And as an added bonus to this gift, He does not just leave us to fumble around to "live out" our life as a new creation. He does not leave us to fend for our self. God declares that "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me." (Philippians 4:13). That is--"all things"--big things and little things. Rest in this truth! Allow it to permeate deep inside of you--allow it to transform all of your thinking and all of your actions.

Enjoy living in Him and with Him in you.

The Wind

The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit. (John 3:8).

Wind--you can hear it. Many times, we can see what it is doing or the effect it has on something. But, we have no idea where it starts or where it ends. We can talk about low pressure systems or high pressure systems. I think it is ok that we do not really understand much about the wind.

This passage explains how the actual spirit of God functions in the life of one that has trusted Jesus Christ as Savior. The Holy Spirit, among other things, guides us, strengthens us, motivates us, convicts us, transforms us, and empowers us. Like the wind, we do not know where all of this comes from. But, we do see its effect. His power living inside of a believer is something to behold. Some examples include: the little whisper to reach out to a friend who really needed to talk at the moment you called; the small nudge to enter a moment of absolute worship; and the power to accomplish a task that is way beyond you.

There is a power inside of you--it is the actual spirit of the living Creator of this universe. Are you listening for the little whisper? Are you cognizant of that small nudge? It's there--it is so there--unmistakable, but still unexplainable. That power that allows us to do wonderful things. Does this power have you? I mean all of you. Every moment of every aspect of your day--does it have you? Our amazing God wants all of you. And in return, He promises to give all of Himself to you. What a promise?

Next time you hear the wind--think about how it touches everything around you--feel it on your face. And so, is the spirit of God.

"Father God, I want your filling Spirit to take over all of my
life. I surrender to you--I am dependent upon you. Empower me
through your Spirit that resides inside of me to listen to you and to always be
cognizant of your amazing presence in my life. I am all yours.
Guide me--use me--strengthen me."

Stay Strong.

We Just Played

And He said: "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like
little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew
18:3 NIV).

Our youngest child, Noah, started kindergarten this week. This has been a huge step in our life. A lot of time and preparation has brought us to this point--all the encouragement, the new school supplies packed neatly in his new back pack, the pictures at the school sign, and the nervous steps into his classroom. As I left to drive to work, an anxious feeling comes over me. I hope he will be alright. That morning, I thought about him a lot--what was he learning, how was he growing, what was he experiencing?

A couple of hours after we dropped him off, his first day was over. Later that day, I excitedly asked him "what did you do on your first day." His response was very matter of fact. He said, "[w]e just played." My first thought was c'mon, what do you mean, you just played. After all, it is kindergarten. What could that teacher be thinking. Let's get rolling with things--all kids have a lot to learn. Before I made an audible response, I believe the Holy Spirit grabbed my tongue.

Soon, I realized, after all, IT IS kindergarten. And, you play in kindergarten. That is what they do. Thinking about this for a bit, I realized how much I can learn from this.

Having an attitude that mirrors that of a child playing may be one of the most spiritual attitudes a Christian could have. Think about it--the child enjoys the moment. At that time, they are not worried about the future. They are not worried about their finances. Thoughts of challenges at work do not enter their mind. The weight of the world is nowhere to be found.

Children just play. And, they trust. Trusting in the fact that all he needs will be provided to him. Moment by moment, they are enjoying the moment they are in. God loves this attitude. He has given you and I the privilege to live as a child--His child. As His child, know that He has all the details already prepared and they are being worked out for your good and His glory.

Joyfully embrace each moment of your day with the knowledge that He wants to release you from the bondage many associate with life. He loves you and is waiting to just thrill you with that love.

Who Am I to Judge?

You may think you can condemn such people, but you are just as bad, and you
have no excuse! When you say they are wicked and should be punished, you
are condemning yourself, for you who judge other do these very same
things. And we know that God, in his justice, will punish anyone who does
such things. Don't you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God
is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? (Romans 2:1-2;4
NLT).

Over dinner this week, our family had a discussion on a sensitive topic that has recently made national headlines. After laying out some of the specifics, I challenged our kids with the words, "so, what do you think?". Instantly, our 12 year old daughter, Shelby, responded with, "I don't see how we can judge them for that. It is not our place to judge." In one respect, her response startled me and in another respect, it encouraged me.

First, I was surprised by the passion in her position. The tone of her voice and her demeanor indicated that she was completely committed to this position. Second, I was encouraged that she had some very specific thoughts to why she held the position that she did. Thank you, Shelby, for your heart and for your thoughts.

As I thought about her response, the realization that God has not delegated to us the power to judge became very apparent. Judging is His job--not ours. After all, doesn't He know so much more about the specifics of a particular situation than we could ever know. Think about it--how many times do we jump to a particular conclusion without knowing all the facts. And with only a portion of the facts, how can we believe we know enough to form an opinion on the matter. Still, I admit, I am prone to form my own judgement without knowing all I need to know.

In the verses above, Paul, the author who penned God's wisdom into the book of the Bible referred to as Romans, reminds us that we are not to judge. He goes on to say that God's patience, tolerance, and kindness towards us should encourage us to treat others in a similar way.

So, when we come across something in our life that raises those judgemental thoughts, what are we to do? I encourage you to trust. Trust Him who knows so much more than you do. Trust Him who is in actually in control. Trust Him who knows that this situation may trip you up. Trusting Him is easier to say than it is to do. Give God a shot. He not only tells us not to judge, but also empowers us to live it out moment by moment in our life if we truly allow Him to live His life through ours.

Can I Do This?

But if the slave plainly says, "I love my master, my wife, and my
children; I will not go out as a free man," then his master shall bring him to God, then he shall bring him to the door or the doorpost. And his master shall pierce his ear with an awl; and he shall serve him permanently. (Exodus 21:5-6).

The slave in this passage, after his ear was pierced, was commonly referred to as a bondservant. The slave's decision to "go under the awl" was a voluntary one and greatly influenced by the type of person the master was. His life proclaimed his passionate love for his master. His life, and now his piercing, left no doubt about his undivided and intense loyalty.

Have you exhibited a similar loyalty to your Master? No, I am not asking have you placed your ear against a doorpost. But, simply this, would people around you, those who you have consistent contact with, be surprised if you outwardly revealed that you are a Chrisitian? They shouldn't be surprised. Hopefully, it is evident in who God is creating you to be.

I encourage you to be bold in your loyalty to your Master. Allow Him to permeate all areas of your life. He desires all of you. You may ask, "[c]an I do this? There are areas of my life that I want to keep to myself." My answer--He knows already who you are and all that there is about you. Why not allow Him to take complete control of all aspects of your life! You follow a loving, compassionate, caring Master who truly has your best interests at heart. Give Him your loyalty.